Aries and Gemini Compatibility: Love, Sex & Relationships…
These two are your full on Laura Croft and Indiana Jones types – adrenaline junkies that get itchy feet real quick when tethered to the one spot. A dynamic if somewhat high risk combination you can be assured that whilst the rest of us are plotting out our existence in suburbia – Aries and Gemini will be living life to the max.
This doesn’t mean there wont be challenges – other than raiding tombs and locating lost Arcs – many Aries/Gemini combos will need to learn to live in the real world – it’s a bit like that home schooled friend who has no idea how to catch the bus – but they can be taught – if Aries/Gemini are willing to listen and learn.
Decoding Aries and Gemini friendships…
Aries and Gemini create hair raising friendships. Both want to hang out with the other one knowing spontaneity will reign supreme. Physical creatures – they are likely to indulge in sporting activities together – think squash, cycling and running buddies.
Interestingly both will be different types of Athletes – the fire in Aries ignites quickly and burns fast making them natural sprinters whereas Airy Gemini starts with a soft breeze and builds to a ranging cyclone over time – making them the endurance sporty types.
These opposing traits can nicely compliment each other as they push each other towards success – although friends often wish that everything didn’t have to be a bet or a race with them.
The Gemini personality can however become downright nasty if their Aries friend finds another cliff hanging buddy. And Aries has a tendency to thoughtlessly abandon their friend if Gemini is injured, sick or unable to participate at the speed of sound.
Try not to become too reliant on each other when it comes to your friendship and you’ll always be able to pick up where you left off.
First signs of attraction & compatibility…
Those initial heart flutters may turn out be more lightening bolt-ish.
Like Roman Gladiators who indulged in frenzied sex after a hard days slaying in the arena – Gemini is likely to meet Aries after completing the Boston marathon or sealing a 7 figure business deal.
Both on a natural high their carnal instincts seek each other out – and be warned: things can get heated fast.
Gemini will respond with a good dose of sexual teasing – mutable signs are highly intelligent and not above causing exquisite pain before they devour their prey.
It’s fascinating to watch these two flirt – akin to watching an X rated episode on the discovery channel.
The Aries and Gemini in relationships…
In areas of persuasion Aries should let nimble minded Gemini do the talking. Think of it as a brilliant brain and brawns combo.
Gemini is ruled by Mercury – a planet known for the gift of the gab – if negotiating a mortgage or complex business deal this sign will understand nuances and technical talk in a flash. Aries area of expertise is in heavy lifting and in acting with speed. This allows them to take care of all the minutia in record time.
This combination can result in a relationship that is not only fiery and full of excitement – but one that where they can get a lot done as a team by spurring each other on to achieve.
But sometimes they can be a little too focused on running full steam ahead at 100/miles an hour. For things to work they will need to make sure that their relationship doesn’t spiral into a frenzy of never ending activities just for the sake of looking busy.
Avoid relationship burnout by slowing down every so often and remembering to emotionally touch base – have a day on the couch watching Game of Thrones every so often – it will be a soothing if not blood thirsty reconnection.
Where they may encounter turbulence…
Both of these signs are sharp tongued and have a tendency for tactlessness. And whilst they’re thick skinned and not the types to take things personally – there are definitely a couple of exceptions.
Gemini is intellectually fluid and flexible – but sometimes they can look down on Aries and criticize them for being stupid or boorish – this will hurt and spark resentment. And whilst they are brilliant conversationalist they can sometimes go on and on a bit – which can end up sounding like irritating white noise to Aries.
Aries on the other hand is so obsessed with starting and finishing things in a speedy manner that it can sometimes get too much for Gemini. They can also be a bit too quick to rush to judgement – running their mouth about things that Gemini can indisputably prove as false and wrong.
Gemini – sometimes you don’t have to use a whole dictionary to get a point across and Aries – check your facts before you say something really, really silly!
When Aries and Gemini fall in love…
Building trust between these two signs will be a critical ingredient in the romance recipe. That’s not because they don’t trust each other but more because they are skeptical of their own ability to commit.
Initial sabotage of the relationship – two or three times – is not unusual before giving in to the inevitable – they are testing the waters before closing the gate on variety.
Early romance days will be punctuated by dust-ups and bust ups – fire sign Aries volatile and angry with each indiscretion and Air sign Gemini blowing furious winds of verbal destruction.
Things settle down when these crazy kids realize no one else can give them the natural highs they get from each other.
Aries and Gemini sexual compatibility…
Asking whether Aries and Gemini are sexually compatible is a bit like asking whether the Pope is Catholic?!! – the answer is of course!!
In the early stages of their relationship sex occurs often and everywhere! However when the 24/7 lust-fest dies down and reality kicks in, creative Gemini may be left wanting more.
Gemini represents duality and they love a bit of role play – slipping into dress-ups and hot and heavy phone sex. Aries considers themselves broad minded but often that’s just ram-speak for an abnormally high sex drive.
Be delicate Gemini – there’s a strong ego involved here – introduce Madam Lash and Naughty night nurse gently – and Aries – give in to your urge to walk on the wild side!
Aries and Gemini marriage compatibility…
These two may see marriage as a “well, what will we do next” situation once they truly realize that no ones going to get them like each other.
Expect one heck of a wedding – if they are going to do it, the event will be big bold and unforgettable – Vows in a volcano or under the northern lights are real possibilities.
Children could be off the table for these two as they simply haven’t got time or the desire to be tied down. However, if Aries/Gemini do decide to produce offspring don’t be surprised if the whole family joins the circus or travels from iron-man competition to iron-man competition.
All in all, should these two make it to the stages of wedding bells, chances are they will have a very loving and prosperous marriage!