Handle with care! this zodiac coupling has all the hallmarks of a fatal attraction. Its going to be messy, explosive and dangerous. Scorpio personalities like to lure unsuspecting prey and Virgo characteristically needs to be commander of the relationship. This adventure could be the undoing of mild mannered Virgo and turn them into a superhero or a super villain.
Alternatively, if Virgo holds ground Scorpio may spend the rest of their lives trying to bag and catch the most elusive and beautiful of all Zodiac creatures.
Decoding Virgo and Scorpio friendships…
This is the kind of relationship that works best when Virgo/Scorpio are a bit messed up. If the chips are down and either seek a different point of view it’s off to the church of Virgo or the Coven of Scorpio – that’s how a friendship is often established. Both signs may have orbited around each other as part of the same social circle until a cataclysmic event occurs and suddenly they turn to the most unlikely person ever for solace and advice.
Scorpio gives Virgo licence to go wild without judgement and encourages them not to be so self critical. Virgo will catch Scorpio when they desperately seek recovery from overindulgence and act their nominated sponsor until health returns. These signs don’t necessarily connect during the good times as their successes occur in opposing worlds and often, places.
First signs of attraction & compatibility…
There’s going to be a fair amount if taunting in the early days of a Virgo/Scorpio love affair. They won’t really like each other all that much – Virgo thinks Scorpio fake and affected and Scorpio finds Virgo uptight and prissy.
There’s also a lot of button pushing, “Tell me about all your sexual partners” commands Scorpio deliberately trying to fan outrage. “Tell me why you’re such a poser?” Responds Virgo. They tend to treat each other pretty abysmally and friends quote the old line, “We think they do protest too much!”. Scorpio/Virgo diss dates, clothes, careers and interests all in an attempt to deny a growing attraction and prevent taking things to the next level.
The Virgo and Scorpio in relationships…
It’s a tightrope walk – maturity and hard work is required for this relationship to get out of the starting blocks. When it works, transformation is a key ingredient – Virgo gets green streaks in their hair and pulls non-sickie sickies from work – Scorpio enlists for “Dry July” and starts using an electronic calendar. One will conform just a little whilst the other gets slightly messy – occasionally it goes completely haywire and Virgo is subsumed by Scorpios’ darkness in which case friends need to get them out of there fast.
They both have a sharp eye for detail and this can be a unifying force when there are similar interests. If into sports, for instant, they’ll research the latest equipment and clothes, and analyse individual performances with a Sherlock Holmes intensity. As a couple they may be too intense for many who have to cope with Virgo/Scorpio banging on 24/7 about their latest obsession.
They also become judgemental about anyone else who’s not on the same journey or delivering the same level of commitment – expect Sunday jogs to develop into half and then ultra-marathons – like Forrest Gump they’ll keep going till it’s all run out.
Where they may encounter turbulence…
Virgo is earth so they bring common sense and practicality to the table whilst Scorpio, as a water element sign provides emotion and predictive thinking. Virgo doesn’t like going of script or plunging into the great unknown and Scorpios’ inability to explain actions based on intuition results in communication breakdowns.
Huge rows and meltdowns occur over health – especially when Scorpio tires of Virgos endless obsession with illness and disease. As both signs are stubborn Scorpio may just decide to neglect their own health to prove a point and withdrawn compassion for Virgos medical crises. Again, it’s about meeting in the middle – Scorpio should appreciate the benefits of having someone around to give them regular health checks and Virgo should stop diagnosing every niggle as terminal.
When Virgo and Scorpio fall in love…
In those heady initial stages of falling in love Virgo/Scorpio see each other through rose coloured glasses. Romantic Scorpio muses and daydreams about Virgos ultimate submission – they can become quite desperate and turn up singing love ballads outside Virgos house at 3am. Virgo feels light hearted and heady but won’t tell friends Scorpio was given admission to their boudoir at 3.am. It’s all still rather secretive but there’s a softness when they talk about each other.
Both signs are highly intelligent so expect long and in-depth conversations face to face, on the phone and on social media. Virgo/Scorpio are fascinated by each other’s thoughts processes and overload of useless information about everything. Granted, Virgo does most of the talking but Scorpio is an active listener and their limited conversation shows retention and respect for Virgos details.
Dates are quietly added to the calendar and it takes a while to go public or arrange family introductions. This period is the lull after the initial attraction-storm and before the relationship challenge.
Virgo and Scorpio sexual compatibility…
Virgo has a never ending well of explosive sexual tension just beneath the surface – once you let that genie out of the bottle things are going to get mega hot and steamy. On the other hand, highly sexed Scorpio has dark and sometimes, disturbing urges but they are also patient and willing to take as long as it takes to turn Virgo from chaste to wanton.
Both love anticipation – expect lots of teasing and making each other wait for the ultimate reward – they may even push the agony even further by sleeping together naked – on the proviso there’s no sex. It might not be everyone’s cup of tea but for Virgo/Scorpio its unbearably delicious.
Virgo and Scorpio marriage compatibility…
It’s a permanent battle of wills and often they resort to tearing strips of each other verbally – but sometimes the strangest couples have the longest staying power. Virgo is a mutable sign – they like charge or development – especially in a relationship and being naturally conservative, they’ll push for marriage.
Scorpio is fixed and tends to cling to the same habits and the same environment so if marriage is what it takes to retain Virgos’ love and keep the status quo on an even keel, then a trip up the aisle is an acceptable price. Finer wedding details – think hand written invitations and floral arrangements will be Virgos domain whilst Scorpio is in charge of atmosphere – think candelabras and chamber orchestras.
Scorpio is also likely to freak out at the mention of children as they fine the potential change threatening but will acquiesce to Virgo if taken gently and consistently through the argument. Together Virgo/Scorpio make surprisingly good parents – Scorpio provides a great sense of humour and imagination whilst Virgo firmly believes in a good education and financial security.
There will be plenty of robust discussions but if they learn to fight without recrimination and use their combined passion to kiss and makeup up the marriage has a good chance of survival.