Cancer and Pisces Compatibility: Love, Sex & Relationships…
You know the Coldplay song “Fix you”? If it isn’t already – Cancer/Pisces should make it their song. Cancer is maternal and Pisces spiritual – both are nurturers who tend to neglect themselves at times, so pairing together is bound to result in a whole lot of healing.
The occasional couple – when already really damaged – descends into mutual destruction but usually the wellness trajectory is up, not down. They respect each other’s vulnerability and work hard to earn trust through actions and words. Cancer/Pisces are tender, loving and not afraid of making a life-long commitment.[adinserter block=”3″] [adinserter block=”4″] [adinserter block=”11″]
Decoding Cancer and Pisces friendships…
Cancer/Pisces have a strong sense of community and believe in helping societies’ most vulnerable members. They express this belief by volunteering in animal shelters, soup kitchens and anywhere community support is required – it’s this platform that often creates enduring friendship.
Alternatively, they are likely to work in health or social serves and become close through sharing similar personal philosophies although not necessarily methodology – Cancer is conventional and old school when it comes to medical and physiological practices whereas Pisces comes to the relationship armed with crystals, runes and Shaman training.
Both are water element signs and believe that strong bodies generate strong minds – expect them to enjoy water sports together – swimming, rowing, surfing – holidays are usually spent near oceans, rivers and lakes. Cancer is the more materialistic whereas Pisces could live in a Hessian bag – expect a few dust ups about rampant consumerism and responsible capitalism but for the most their friendship is tight – they become part of each other’s families, door knock for local charities and enjoy long, long lunches debating religion, politics and the authenticity of Caitlin Jenner.
First signs of attraction & compatibility…
Pieces would flirt with a cadaver – they are sparkling little pixies who weave magic into personal space and souls – warning – shameless touching and fake laughter will occur. Cancer – our zodiac tragic when it comes to flirting is totally steamrolled and literally cornered. They bluster, blush and perspire – in buckets. It’s a train wreck but friends won’t be able to look away.
Of course, a terrified, gormless crab just makes Pisces go in harder – initially it takes some time and quite a few intersections for Cancer to relax – when they do and conversation starts to flow a meeting of minds and hearts occurs – Cancer relaxes Pisces – both realise their flirting behaviors are generated from a place of insecurity – it’s the beginning of trust.
The Cancer and Pisces in relationships…
They are very deep and connected, and morph into each other – expect conversions to vegetarianism, Kabala and self-help gurus. Cancer is always more skeptical but sheer force the fish’s personality wears them down. Friends worry that their crab has been sucked dry of free will but it’s just part of the process – eventually independent thought does return.
These signs do have periods of going off the grid which is good because they are pretty nauseating in public. Privately they get all loved up and lazy until Pisces’ low boredom threshold catapults them back into reality with a round of family events and new projects to support local groups.
Cancer provides creative Pisces with a more refined set of aesthetics and burns the 1970s parachute pants. Pisces brings a sense of play and fun to the relationship. They may have some squabbles over money and nest eggs – it’s advisable that Cancer takes the finance reigns and cuts up Pisces credit cards. They spend weekends tending to the organic garden, renovating, and catching up with family – usually Cancer/Pisces creates a little bubble of homegrown bliss.
Where they may encounter turbulence…
In the beginning Cancer gets jealous with Pisces’ auto-pilot flirting. Toned down rather than turned off is the best they can hope for. Clear communication and reassurance from Pisces is necessary to keep the relationship on an even keel and Cancer should try not to be too clingy and over-protective to avoid Pisces turning flirting into action.
Both have a tendency to overindulge and use food, alcohol and drug for comfort – It’s important that one tries to save the other when in a tail spin. If they fall into co-dependency the end result is Kurt Cobain and Courtney love, mark II.
When Cancer and Pisces fall in love…
Pisces is likely to want to move in together 5 minutes after love has been declared because they’ve discovered a sense of security and protection that’s long been missing. Cancer pushes back – they know the fish is impulsive and request time to makes sure cohabitation is more than a whim.
There’ll be lots of drama during the “falling in love” stage – usually caused by Pisces who makes Cancer look like an emotional vault in comparison – drunken call outs at 3 am, sleaziness and oversharing are all fishy behaviors. The crab must be patient and not allow Pisces to self-sabotage. If Cancer/Pisces gets through this stage – the future looks rosy.
Cancer and Pisces sexual compatibility…
It’s a competition for who is the most intense between the sheets. Pisces views sex as a spiritual earthquake and Cancer considers it the ultimate form of intimacy. They both give a lot and get a lot from the experience – the only thing stopping them from becoming sex junkies is Pisces yoga retreats where celibacy is practiced.
Cancer is a cardinal zodiac sign, meaning they like to initiate and make preparations for love making – buying negligees and edible body paint, circling the calendar. Pisces as a mutable zodiac sign, is spontaneous and shocks Cancer with their anywhere, anytime attitude but, ultimately, ensures the crab feels safe. There’s a life time of sensual delights with these two who never tire of each other’s body, mind or heart.
Cancer and Pisces marriage compatibility…
Oh yes, it’s gonna happen! The crab desperately wants to build a home with Pisces to keep them safe and loved up. Pisces wants the drama of a wedding and formally declaring their love in front of friends and family. Classy but simple the event pays homage to their respective heritages and cultures with Pisces being more than fashionably late.
Their home is warm and inviting, although Cancer spends the rest of their life picking and cleaning up after messy Pisces. They’ll watch each other’s cholesterol and blood- pressure and there’ll be a fleet of family bikes and surfboards. Children are holistically raised – their minds bodies and souls nurtured. Cancer gives them traditions and Pisces spontaneity – it’s an excellent mix and ensures offspring grow into resilient confidant humans.