One thing is for certain: Aries with Aries is never boring. They will burn brightly and then crash in cosmic chaos. Always on the go and planning the next adventure these fiery creatures are capable of achieving a lot together – that’s if they can turn the drama down and show a bit of humility. They’ll need to use the gentle art of listening and be willing to step outside of their egos if they’re going to make anything work long-term.
Nevertheless it is possible to smooth out and avoid some of the speed bumps. To help you along your way we’ve unpacked everything that you’ll need to know about Aries-Aries relationships. Read ahead and discover the good, the bad and the”WTF were they thinking” elements of this passionate liaison.
Decoding Aries and Aries friendships…
Aries and Aries actually make for really good friends. They tend to riff off each other and come up with all kinds of crazy schemes and plans – which they’re then able to turn into reality. Put two fixed signs together and you’ve got determination squared – consequently they make great gym buddies or business partners.
But they may struggle to keep things as “just mates” for long. It can sometimes be hard for Aries-Aries friendships to remain purely platonic – with Mars as their ruling planet sex is always under consideration for both of them – one late night at the office could turn their friendship into a whole new ball game.
First signs of attraction & compatibility…
There’s two ways this could go – either Aries meets Aries and everyone’s yelling “get a room!” after 10 minutes. Or they appear to hate each other with a weird intensity just based off first impressions. Believe it or not though – this still doesn’t necessarily mean that the situation can’t saved or even lead to something sexual.
Because the Aries personality is emotionally volatile they sometimes shoot from the hip without completely understanding why. Be wary when they say they despise a new acquaintance – it could be code for “I want rip their clothes off”. If these two get off to a bad start then then a little time together may well change that.
The Aries and Aries in relationships…
Sometimes Aries and Aries can be brutally honest with each other. It’s not necessarily a bad thing though since they don’t believe in dancing around subject matter or lying to save someones feelings. It’s only when the constructive criticism becomes spiteful that they attack and say things that can’t be taken back.
They will push each other to be a better version of themselves as for all their talk of independence and not giving a toss what other people think, Aries does want to impress loved ones. Expect – for the most part – supportiveness in most endeavors and a desire to celebrate each others successes.
Where they may encounter turbulence…
Almost everywhere – but this isn’t necessarily a bad thing. Aries loves turbulence – they can exhaust everyone around them when is comes to high drama – and sometimes only another Aries will get this. It’s when the fighting stops that you’ve got a problem – Aries have obviously stopped caring.
They may also have trust issues based around their lack of impulse control and constant need for an instant rush. This may even impact on their ability to remain faithful and since they are both so alike in this department, suspicion and jealousy can get in the way of trust. It’s a juggling act – both will need plenty of freedom but also some accountability.
When Aries and Aries fall in love…
When these two fall in love with each others wild side they can feel like they recognize a kindred spirit within each other. They’ll seek out adrenaline together by doing something crazy like white water rafting or bungee jumping just to enjoy the near death experience together. Normally highly energetic Aries in love becomes hyper-alert and wont find time to sleep, what with all the sex and hair-raising activities they are planning.
They may also disappear from their friends for a while because there’s no room for anyone else in the house of loved up Aries. Initially there will be challenges, intellectually, physically and emotionally whilst they test each other out for compatibility. Because of this signs competitive nature falling in love can feel like a bit like preparing for battle.
Aries and Aries sexual compatibility…
Okay, so initially sex between these two is volcanic and explosive – but the volcano can become dormant real quick – this usually happens when the focus is totally on their own pleasure. They can be so eager that they rush things and forget to enjoy the moment. What they need to do is to communicate their desires with one another and not be so selfish in bed!
When fire meets fire there’s of course volatility and no one does makeup sex better than Aries and Aries. There will be plenty of opportunities to cultivate this aspect of their sexual repertoire and we suspect that sometimes these signs deliberately create an arguments just so they can makeup – fighting is Aries foreplay.
Aries and Aries marriage compatibility…
Compromise, compromise compromise and give each other space. Aries and Aries do make formidable couples in the marriage department – if everything is on a trajectory upwards – but when life throws them a couple of curve balls, recrimination and blame can cut through. This sign needs to learn how to act like a team during the tough times and not abandon ship at the first sign of trouble.
They must keep those lines of communication open and not be too proud to go for the odd couples counselling session or retreat if it’s needed to fine tune their relationship. Marriage is often a hard road for Aries as they psychologically feel constrained and trapped, so it’s crucial they give each other room to breathe. Be willing to think outside the square and a lasting commitment is possible.